Her Lauren

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Since Viv was little I wished for her to have a "Lauren". That best friend, that soul sister. A girlfriend that isn't just a friend but is a part of the family. That friend that Viv knows will never turn her back on her. For a military kid that moves every year or two, it seemed impossible. 

Seemed impossible, but wasn't impossible. 

AB and Viv met in kindergarten, and were instant kinder besties. They haven't had the kind of bestie friendship that Lauren and I had though. They haven't been able to live at each others houses throughout the summers and on the weekends. They haven't been together every single day after school. They don't have supper together and then head off to swim or dance together. Those memories belong to me and my own Lauren. 

AB and Viv have had the kind of best friendship that takes a whole lot of loyalty and patience. Distance isn't easy for kids. Planned phone calls and spring break trips. Summer trips and birthday surprises to Colorado and Virginia and Florida.  Weeks between FaceTimes because...well, life. But they always picked up right where they left off. Like no time had passed at all. 

How lucky are we, Viv? To each have our own Lauren. 














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